You just got asked to be Maid Of Honor! That’s awesome! So now what?
Today’s Maid Of Honor and Bridesmaids will help the bride prepare for her big day. This could include organizing bridal showers, rehearsal dinners and sending invitations. It also includes tasks such as decorating, dressing and managing any anxiety on the wedding day.
It wasn’t always like this. Let’s find out everything you need to know to help your best friend walk down the aisle.
Where did The Tradition Of Bridesmaids come from?
Here are some thoughts about where the tradition of Bridesmaids came from, some wilder than others. These are the three most popular:
- Protecting the bride from evil spirits and kidnappings- SRSLY To confuse warring clans or vengeful spirits that might wish to harm the bride, it was a custom for Bridesmaids to dress as the bride. This is perhaps why we still have the tradition of wearing matching outfits to the Bridal Party.
- Legal witnesses- Ancient Rome’s law required that ten witnesses be present at a wedding. These ten witnesses were often friends of the Bride and Groom. This is how the term “Bridal Party” was created.
- The Bible- Many people cite Jacob’s biblical story as the source of the origins. Jacob’s two wives, Leah (and Rachel), were both married to maids in the Book of Genesis.
What is the difference between the Maid of Honor and Bridesmaids?
The “Maid Of Honor” is the principal Bridesmaid. The Maid Of Honor is usually a close friend, sister or confidante that the bride can trust. The Maid of Honor acts as an assistant to the bride.
The Bridesmaids are expected to support and assist the bride as necessary. However, the Maid-of-Honor will be there to help her with any tasks. This could include organizing the rehearsal dinner or setting up invitations.
The Maid of Honor will assist the bride in getting ready, helping her with the groom’s hair, taking care of her makeup, helping her to get into the bathroom, holding her bouquet, and providing comfort when she needs it.
What are the Maid Of Honor Duties?
It is an honor to be asked to be Maid of Honor. We want you to make it a success. Here are some duties that you might be asked to assist with:
Synchronize with the bride
12-15 Months before the wedding
Please spend some time with the bride to discuss what she needs. You might be asked to help with planning the Bachelorette Party, wedding dress shopping and other tasks. It’s important to remember that it’s her wedding, and you are the support team.
Shop for Wedding Dresses
(9-12 months before the wedding).
The most emotional moment for a bride is when she shops for her bridal gown. You can help her plan her wedding day by coordinating with others and keeping track of her favorite styles. If permitted, you might help her bring champagne. Be ready to celebrate with the bride when she says “Yes”.
All Bridesmaids should have their own dresses
6-8 months before the wedding
To allow for shipping and alteration, bridesmaids should order their dresses 6-8 months before the wedding. You should consult with each Bridesmaid as a Maid of Honor to ensure that they order on time and provide any details.
The Bachelorette Party
2-3 months before the wedding
It’s your chance to shine. Prepare to be creative and take control when planning the Bachelorette Party. The party is only for the bride. Invite the Bridesmaids, family members, and any other friends she may wish to invite. You should also discuss your budget with your Bridesmaids to ensure you don’t spend too much.
Make a toast for the reception
1 month before the wedding
It is a common custom for the Maid of Honor to make a toast at the reception. It is important to start writing before things turn out badly.
Get your hair and makeup ready
1 month before the wedding
Talk to the bride about your “hair and makeup plan” for the wedding day. Bridal parties often hire a stylist to visit their suite. You can also help arrange this (on-site stylists must be booked months in advance). ).
Final Bridal Dress Fitting
(2-4 weeks before the wedding
The bride may ask you to accompany her to her final fitting. You can be there to help her change and get the dress home safely. You can also learn how to bustle the train. The bride cannot do this by herself, so it’s best to have someone else help her.
Keep an eye on the wedding gifts
(Before and After the Wedding).
The bride is busy with many things. It may be difficult to remember who sent which gift and how many thank yous were written. Keep a record of who gave what gift and when it was received at the Bridal Shower. After everything is settled, the bride will have a list of thank-you cards to follow.
Wedding Day Responsibilities
Although there are many responsibilities that must be shared on the wedding day, the bride (and all others) will have a much better experience.
- Make contact
So that you can answer any questions the bride’s family or friends may have, make sure you know as much as possible about the wedding plans. This will make it easier for the bride to communicate with you and save her time.
- Make sure the bridal suite is clean on the day of the wedding.
After everyone has finished getting ready, ensure everything is clean and taken out of the bridal room.
- Make sure the bride remembers to eat & drink.
Seek out if the bride has any food needs before and during the day. Even though she might be too excited to think about food, a protein-rich snack can help ease any nerves.
- Help the bride get dressed (Day of the wedding).
Before the bride arrives, make sure everything is set up or hung up so that it’s easier for her to place her dress, shoes and other accessories.
- Assist the Mother-in-law
You can help her with everything, from her hair and makeup to water and snacks. Moms love to help, so make sure you have a list of things she can do.
- Take care of the bouquet (Day of the wedding).
Hold the bouquet for the bride as she walks down the aisle. You can hand the bouquet to the bride after she has said, “I do.” She can then hold it as she walks down the aisle.
- Dance with the Bride (Day Of Wedding)
It’s finally here! It’s now time to dance with your best friend, her family and all of her friends. The bride and groom want everyone to have a great time!
Have Fun (24/7)
Last but not least, although your primary responsibility is to provide extra help for the bride, don’t forget about having some fun. The bride is your best friend, no matter what, from lunch with mani-pedis to a girls’ night in, Have fun, laugh, and celebrate your friend’s happiness.
ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS
How many bridesmaids do I need?
Although there is no minimum or maximum number of people you can have in your Bridal Party, it is best to have equal numbers on both sides.
What’s the difference between a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor?
The individual’s marital status determines the difference. A Matron of Honor is married while a Maid Of Honour is not.
Can I have a Matron and Maid of Honor?
Yes. Your big day is yours – “you do it.” You can have your MoHs work together to assist with setup and planning. This is especially useful if the MoH is far away, as it can make it easier to assist with local tasks.
